Let's start at the beginning...

BTW, thought it might be fun to see where this whole relationship started so let's take a look at my first post about John (or Jon as I couldn't remember how his name was spelled):

11/7/2007
"So I had a date this last weekend with a new guy, Jon (not sure on the spelling), and he seems really nice. Met up at a gathering Michelle's work had. He met up with us for Halloween and then this last weekend I went on a hay rack ride with him. I know, hay rack rides are not me in the least bit, but I went along with it for the hell of it. Turned out to be pretty fun, his friends are really cool. So the hay rack ride part was not my favorite, but afterwards we ended up having a bonfire which was fun, but really what is not fun about standing around and drinking some beers? He gave me a call yesterday (couldn't talk because I was at Spamalot!!) and he wants to do something Thursday or Friday. He seems like a nice guy, and he really is funny, and we have a lot in common, problem is I am not sure how much I am attracted to him. God that is just me, finally meet a dateable guy, and I am not sure if I want to date him."

Well we all know how that dating turned out, and well frankly that attraction and love thing happens over time and if it is a good relationship, it deepens with time.  God now I sound old, married, and sappy.  At least the married and sappy things are right, and I got a whole another year for that old thing to happen!